Posts Tagged ‘caring for your parent’

Alzheimer’s Care Giving While Maintaining Your Own Health

Friday, July 23rd, 2010

By: Deborah Uetz

Published: August 31, 2007

Just for a moment I want you to imagine that you are coming out of a very deep sleep. If you have ever had surgery try to remember the way you felt as you were trying to make sense of things as you awoke. As you imagine or remember this sensation do you find yourself wondering if it is morning or night? Are you trying to remember where you are? Do you have a startle reaction and think for a moment that you are late for work or forgot to pick up your children at school? I have had that upsetting feeling if I wake up in the middle of the night or even after a nap. Now imagine that same fog every moment of your life…

So many care givers find themselves frustrated with an Alzheimer’s sufferer. They may say things like “He just doesn’t seem to care if I am with him or not” or “He doesn’t enjoy doing anything any more.” I know that it is so hard to accept the changes in your loved one and know that this is going to be your reality. If you can remind yourself that the behaviors are organic it will help. The plaque is building up and spreading over the surface of the brain just as a grassfire moves across a dry field. As it covers more areas your loved falls deeper into that fog. Alzheimer’s disease doesn’t show up like a broken one or a surgical scar but the effects are just as real.

When the things they say or do cause you to feel angry or sad do you best to remember that it is the disease…not your loved one. That’s when it is time for some care giver TLC.

Care giver burnout is a very real occurrence. If you are caring for someone you must include your own needs each day. Your health may decline at a faster rate than the person you are caring for if your dietary, emotional and physical needs are not met. Skipping your checkups with Dr.s is not an option.

You may be asking “How am I supposed to do all of this all by myself?” The answer is simple. You can’t do it all alone. The first step to healthy care giving is accepting the fact that you have limitations. Every human being does. You can only stay awake, maintain your health and keep up with the demands for a limited amount of time. When you reach your limit you may find yourself suffering from care giver burnout. You may have trouble concentrating, experience nervous tension, and you may find it difficult to fight off resentment toward your loved one or others in your family that you feel should be assisting you.

Reach out. Call upon your family, friends, church and community organizations. Your local hospitals will have information regarding community resources. This information can usually be found by contacting the Social Services Department. Another good resource is the Alzheimer’s Association. By taking care of your health you will, in turn be a better care giver.

Deborah Uetz

Author of Into the Mist, When Someone You Love Has Alzheimer’s Disease

Deborah Uetz
Author of Into the Mist, When Someone You Love Has Alzheimer’s Disease website http://www.intothemist.us

Caring For a Senior Family Member at Home

Monday, May 31st, 2010

Taking care of a loved one at home after a major illness or surgery can be an overwhelming task both physically and mentally. The responsibilities are challenging for both the one being cared for and those taking the lead for the primary care. In some cases the recovering family member may have some reservations and an unwillingness to ask their son or daughter to give up a job to care for them. In these cases, having professional home care Chapel Hill, NC can help in easing the patients concerns and allow both family members and the one being cared for with more quality time together.

In almost all cases, there are going to be reasons that your loved one may not want to consider the option of in-home health care. Therefore, it is important before relying on home care Durham NC to provide part or full responsibilities for the patients care to listen to your loved one’s concerns. Take time to note what they may be worried about and go over these during interviews while searching for just the right care service.

One of the first arguments you may hear is that your loved one doesn’t believe they need help. So, in these cases while discussing senior care Chapel Hill NC that you let your loved one know having outside help is more for your peace of mind- which in almost all situations is the reason for seeking care. Taking care of our loved ones isn’t about physically being there 24/7 but knowing that when we can’t be there someone competent and committed to their wellbeing will be but without taking away their feelings of independence.

Home care not only provides in-home medical care but can also take on some of the errands outside of the home, if the recovering loved one is a bit apprehensive about a new person in the house. As the care worker becomes more familiar to the loved one, trust and friendship is gained and can facilitate a working relationship that benefits both the patient and the family.

While recovering at home, most physicians strongly suggest that the family employ outside assistance. Therefore, if there may be other reasons that the patient balks at this kind of service, the family can simply counter that argument with the physician’s release orders from the hospital. Usually this will end the resistance and facilitate the transition from hospital to home care, in Durham, Clayton, or Chapel Hill NC.

At one time or another, most families will face taking care of a loved one, whether that be during recovery or for end of life care. And there are no easy answers or ways to ease all the burdens placed on those family members. These people are trained in medical or physical care as well as dealing with the inevitable emotional strains. The one saving grace is that there are people trained and ready to take some of the responsibilities from the family and allow everyone to be more at ease with the situation. Today, with these advances in care, many families are able to care for loved ones at home, where both the patient and the family are most at ease.

Written by Jenny Heart. Quality home care Durham NC: Receive senior care Chapel Hill NC, alzheimer’s and elder care through home care Chapel Hill NC, Clayton, Raleigh, Cary, Wake Forest.

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Making Senior Health Insurance Options Understandable

Tuesday, March 2nd, 2010

With the rising cost of healthcare and the current economic crisis, choosing the right senior health insurance plan is more important now than ever.  Picking an affordable senior health plan that fits your unique needs can help you enjoy your golden years by providing financial stability and peace-of-mind.  However, the array of choices for senior health insurance plans – such as Medi-gap, Medicare Advantage and Prescription Drug Plans, just to name a few – can be overwhelming.   The amount of information is vast, and even finding that information can be a daunting task.  Fortunately, there are steps you can take to choose the right senior health plan with confidence.

Tips for Choosing the Right Senior Health Insurance Plan

 

If you follow a few simple steps, understanding your senior health insurance options – and selecting the best one for your needs – can be relatively uncomplicated.

  1. Understand the basics.

 

Know what your options are.  There are numerous insurance choices for seniors, including original Medicare, Medicare Supplement, Medicare Part D (for prescriptions) Medicare Advantage plans and Special Needs Plans for persons with disabilities and low income.  Each option has its own benefits and drawbacks, so being aware of all your alternatives allows you to select the best one.  Also, keep in mind that you can combine multiple plans to provide the coverage you need.

  1. Keep the big picture in mind.

 

Instead of feeling overwhelmed in the decision-making process, keep in mind what your ultimate goals are in purchasing a senior health insurance plan.  For example, know your

deadlines and when you would be able to switch from the plan in the future.  Keeping your big-picture goals in mind will keep you from becoming bogged down in irrelevant options and leave you feeling good about having made a decision on a health insurance plan.

  1. Enlist the help of a qualified expert.

 

Finding an experienced senior health insurance specialist is one of the best ways to obtain comprehensive information on your senior health plan choices.  Having an expert that will guide you through the process of choosing a plan is essential. They provide you with easy-to-understand information and clarify any confusion you may have.  Moreover, some brokers offer in-person or on-the-phone consultations, which save clients the hassle of navigating the Internet. 

Selecting senior health insurance doesn’t have to be an exhausting task.  Just keep the basics in mind, get help if you need it, and prioritize your long-term goals.  When you select the best senior health plan for your unique needs, you can rest assured that your health care is covered.

http://www.articlesbase.com/insurance-articles/simplifying-the-complicated-making-senior-health-insurance-options-understandable-670943.html

Leaving Your Elders In Safe Hands

Tuesday, March 2nd, 2010

Our elderly parents very often need our support to help them to settle in their retired lives. While trying to find a solution to the issue, we may come across all types of services that are available for taking care of senior citizens. Due to your preoccupation with a job and having your own family to look after, you may not be able to provide them support. In such a case, adult day care can prove to be a blessing for many. Adult day care is beneficial to those senior citizens who need the company of people during daytime.

However, when you decide to utilize the services of an adult day care center for your elderly mother or father, ensure that they are also involved in the decision – making. The thought of adult day care center is very upsetting for an elderly parent, because it gives them a feeling of being neglected , or being treated as an infant who needs looking after. It is best to avoid using the phrase ‘adult day care’ while making the suggestion, as the elderly are sensitive people and may think you are putting them away, someplace.

There may be church programs in your local parish that the senior citizens can attend to pass their time rewardingly, and many prefer to do so. The other option is, of course, a day care center where they can enjoy the company of other like minded people. The ideal way to find a suitable adult day care center is to conduct a tour along with your elderly parent to find out what options exist locally, and make the choice together. You may, however want to get some prior information regarding the adult day care center by making enquiries with them. Some of the pertinent questions could be:
• Is transportation facility available at the assisted care facilities? Does that facility continue to operate all day? This is needed so that your parent does not get stranded at the facility for lack of transportation.
• Do they have qualified medical personnel to attend to the elderly, in case there is any kind of medical emergency?
• Is there an arrangement for food and beverages for a day-long stay? Are the food services sensitive to diet restrictions prescribed by the doctor? This would be a pertinent question if your parent is a diabetic and has to follow a restricted diet.
• How many elders are present at the care center on any given day? Too few would imply that the center is not providing good service and too many would mean lack of attention for your parent in the large crowd.
• What are the costs involved?

The activities and entertainment provided for the elderly at the adult day care center are an incentive for them to go there. For example, during the football season, if the center provides a place for all the men to gather and cheer for the game, it will be more enjoyable for your dad rather than being alone in the apartment watching the game. If the adult day care center has a variety of activities like card games or puzzles that appeal to everyone, then it will be a fun place for your parent to pass their time.

Arranging for a good adult day care center to take care of your elderly father or mother takes a load off your mind. Before making a decision to select the center for your parent, it would be a good idea to get a feel of the place by talking to the staff and spending some time yourself to gauge the atmosphere. This way, you are sure that your parent is well taken care of and passing the time in a healthy and friendly environment. They will get to know more people and generally enjoy the time spent at the center. This will prove to be invigorating for them and they will eat and sleep better, thus solving a number of problems associated with old age.

http://www.articlesbase.com/elderly-care-articles/adult-day-care-center-leaving-your-elders-in-safe-hands-740217.html

Indianapolis, Indiana Baby Boomers are Caring for Parents and Children

Friday, September 18th, 2009

Here is a great article for those who are caring for aging parents from www.Agingcare.com.

Stroke Recovery Tips for Caregivers in Indianapolis, Indiana

Sunday, August 2nd, 2009

This is a very informative article for anyone who has a loved one recovering from a stroke.

Indianapolis, Indiana Families Plan for Eldercare

Wednesday, July 15th, 2009

Family Reunion–a Good Time for Family Planning

Summertime brings a lot of family time. With family reunions, picnics, weddings and other events, long distant family members travel to gather together. It is also the perfect time to do some planning for the future. With parents aging and their health and lifestyles changing, children need to discuss some changes and decisions that will be needed in the near future. Parents should take the time to tell their children where important documents are kept and what their wishes are in the event of needing health care directives or experiencing long term care needs.

For those children who live away, the change they see in their parent’s health and mental capacity may be alarming — whereas siblings that have daily contact are working with these issues constantly. Here is the chance to compare notes and work together as a complete family in the long term care planning process.

For you parents who are well and active, this is a good time to hold a family meeting and share with your children your plan for long term care. Tell them where financial and legal documents are located. Review health care directives, living wills and long term care alternatives.

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Elder Care in Indianapolis, Indiana

Thursday, July 2nd, 2009

Elder care shifting away from nursing homes

Here is a great article I found in USA Today that is helpful for anyone considering an adult day care center, assisted living facility or hiring a geriatric care manager in the Indianapolis IN area.

Choosing the Right Retirement Community in Indianapolis IN

Friday, June 26th, 2009

Here is a helpful article for anyone considering a Retirement Community for an aging loved one.

Keep Your Aging Parents Safe in Their Indianapolis IN Homes

Friday, June 19th, 2009

Here is a great article about a very delicate subject that many of us may face with our own parents or loved ones at some point, an unsafe home.